2021.09.22 01:30 jenkumboofer Was I ghosted, or did I miss something?
Hey guys, I was originally going to post this on a throwaway but at this point idc, I’m just bummed out & need to vent. This is a repost bc I noticed some typos in my original post, but here’s an incoming wall of text:
After being breaking up with my 6 year gf (it was a mutual decision, left on good terms) I was feeling down & decided to try Tinder.
I match with a girl, and she’s absolutely awesome; she’s funny, smart, and absolutely beautiful, with an adorable cat as well (huge for me as a pet person). We hit it off & spend all day talking to each other through text, only to find out she’s about to leave on a two week trip in a day or two. No worries, I immediately clear my schedule and we meet up for drinks.
The first date goes amazingly (as far as I can tell). Conversation is easy, we’re flirty all night, and when she drives me back to where I parked my car we end up making out passionately for about 10 minutes before I leave.
During her trip we text throughout the day for the first half of her vacation, but I notice that something is up soon. We had sexted a little one night, but I noticed what seemed like regret the next morning, so I made a point to tell her that I’m really into her & don’t want her to think I’m only in it for a physical connection. She responds saying she appreciates that I noticed the disconnect, and that she really values our “emotional connection” and doesn’t want it to be just about sex.
After that point though our conversations became less frequent, maybe once a day at best. She made a few offhand comments about depression & I tried to be supportive, bc I’ve had my own struggles with mental health. I realize that it’ll take another in person date to see if the spark is gone, so when she’s back we meet up for drinks again. It’s here when she finally explains that she likes me but doesn’t want anything “serious or committed”, and was concerned I had caught feelings too quickly, (which is understandable) but to me felt a little confusing given she had brought up the “emotional connection” in the first place.
I scoop her from her apartment and we walk around the corner to a bar, and spend a good two hours over there drinking & shooting shit. After a while we walk back to her place, where I get to play with her cat (who was an absolute sweetheart) and talk for a bit. Before I leave she leans in to kiss me and we make out again, and she ends up telling me to drive safely & let her know when I get home. I do all of this, hear from her the next morning that she had fun.
That following Monday (last week) I reached out to see if she wanted to hang out again, and haven’t heard anything back. She watches all of my social media stories daily, so I know she’s out there, but it just sucks to be ghosted after what felt like good dates. Maybe I did come on a bit strong, but honestly it felt like she was feeling something initially too, and I’m not sure if that two week vacation ruined it. It just makes me feel like shit to have found a girl I liked relatively quickly after being dumped, only to be feeling like I’m alone again.
TL,DR: went on a good date, didn’t see girl for two weeks, second date went well but now I’ve been ghosted.
I’m not sure if it’s something I did, or if she’s going through some shit on her end, but I can’t help but wonder if it’ll ever be worth reaching out again further down the line or if I should just chalk it up as a first Tinder experience.
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I had the standard version on cd. I downloaded the ultimate version from the store, there were two files, one 1.2mb file with the special edition content, the other with the 90gb base game. Instead of downloading everything all at once, I only downloaded the first one (1.2mo special edition). And now I don't have access to any additional content when I open my game. And i can't find the ultimate edition in my library, it's unavailable now on the store since i buy it.
Forgive my english !
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